Thursday, March 21, 2013

Pangatlong Pictures Lang
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Ashley Mecham <ashley.mecham@myldsmail.net>
Mar 18 (2 days ago)

to Amanda, me
Okay, here is Halo-Halo. I talked about it in my first email (maybe second, I don't remember). It is the craziest drink but sobrang masarap. It is sweet, but there are like, beans in it and other mysterious things that I have no idea what they are. But there's a picture for you.


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Friday, March 15, 2013

Letter from Ashley;      Feb. 27,2013
Dearest Pamlya ko,
    I AM SAFE! I'm writing you from the mission home in Manila.  It is huge! And so nice. I took my last hot shower this morning and it was glorious. By the time you get this, you will probably already have received at least one e-mail from me. So, about the 'ppines, one other sister and I got "sky priority" which means we got to board the plane first and get our luggage first. So after we got our luggage, we left the airport and a small Philipino man yelled, "Sisters, wait here." So we did. (He looked official, he had a sign that said "Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints")  Anyway, the rest of the missionaries finally came (at least 30 of us) and we walked to the curb where a stranger yelled "WELCOME TO THE PHILIPPINES, MORMONS!"  It was great!! We met our mission president and his wife there. About 15 of us were staying in Manilla and the rest were off to Quezon, Baguio o Angeles. The 6 sisters going to Manilla came to the mission home to sleep, and everyone else went to the Manila MTC for the night (we got the better deal.) Anyway, we drove here in the middle of the night and traffic is still CRAZY everywhere. No one really follows any discernible traffic laws- even the mission president!  Well, I'm sure that by the time you get this, I will have taken a million bucket showers, met my new companion, ate a lot of weird things. etc. But for now, I slept in a home that's nicer than ours, took a hot shower, and ate pancakes for breakfast... I LOVE YOU! I'm really so grateful for everything you have done for me.  You are angels and I wouldn't be here without you!
              Love,   your tallest daughter, Sister Mecham
Letter from Mission President
February 28, 2013
Dear Brother and Sister Mecham,
      We are thrilled to inform you that your daughter, Sister Ashley Nicole Mecham, has arrived safely in the Philippines Manila Mission! She is well and sends her love and best greetings to you.  After spending a short time with us in the mission home for interviews and new missionary orientation, she was assigned to work with her trainer, Sister Hunt in the Puerto Princesa District of the Puerto Princesa Zone. We are truly excited to have your daughter serve the Lord with us here in the Philippines.  The people of the land are so warm and friendly, and your daughter will quickly grow to love and appreciate them.
      As you may know, missionary work can be quite demanding. To help maintain a positive attitude for your daughter, communication from family and friends is especially important and should always be supportive. Please write or e-mail each week and make your message optimistic and encouraging. Please avoid references to problems at home unless absolutely necessary and always show genuine interest in her daily activities, accomplishments, and successes.
      If any question should arise about the health or welfare of your missionary, please check with the mission office before you do anything. Do not send money to anyone who might request funds in behalf of your missionary without talking to the Mission President directly.
       We will do everything possible to help your daughter achieve her full potential as one of the Lord's servants. There are many opportunities for success and with the help of the Lord we are confident that your daughter will have a wonderful and successful mission.
        Please know that Sister Stucki and I will love her.  We regularly review each missionary's situation and needs at zone conference and at scheduled personal interviews. The missionaries also keep me informed through their weekly reports. Your missionary is in the hands of the Lord and under His protection (Matt. 28:19-20).
           Sincerely,
           Lyle J. Stucki,
           President Philippines Manila Mission

Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Mabuhay Pa!
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Ashley Mecham <ashley.mecham@myldsmail.net>
10:39 PM (18 hours ago)

to me, Amanda
Dear, sweet Pamilya,

Oh man, I hope everything is well with you! I am still alive! Palawan is still beautiful and the people are still speaking Tagalog!

So let's talk about some things. My companion tells me to be confident when I speak to strangers, so that is something I've been working on. However, because of my confidence, people don't question what I said when it is completely not what I meant to say. For example, last p-day after I emailed you, we went to MacDo (australian) and I wanted to order meal number two. Instead I order two meal number two's. So, maybe I will get fat here after all because I ate them both. Also we we were riding home in a trike and I accidentally said, "Dito" (which means here, like RIGHT HERE) and pointed to our house in the distance. So he confusedly kept driving to where I pointed and I realized my mistake so I said, "Oh, hindi, DOON" but by that time he was already there and it was dito now and he was just so confused. That's my life. 

Last p-day I experienced my first grocery store trip which was INSANE. Picture Wal-Mart on the craziest day, but the cashiers don't care about getting you through the line quickly at all. They take their time and pack (like, really PACK) all of your groceries into one bag (which I actually really like). But they have the strangest selling tactics. One lady came up to us and said, "Do you want to know what is on sale today?" "Uhh sure..." "Then reach your hand in here and touch." "Excuse me?" "TOUCH MO BA??" So we reached into a mysterious box and there was just a purse inside... very strange... So the groceries here are tiny. Everything here is tiny. I feel like I'm living in a dollhouse. Everything is individually packaged - wala costco. 

Oh, cute. It was my birthday! The members here are the sweetest and everyone was texting me happy birthday and hugging me and singing to me even though I had only been here for like a week. Also, happy birthday to me, this is funny. We were standing waiting for a trike and I hear, "Ma'am, excuse me, ma'am". So obviously they're talking to me. I turn around and there is a man in the bushes and he says, "Excuse me ma'am, what is your height?" And I tell him and he says, "Thank you" and walks away. Alright, cool. I ALWAYS forget how different I look to everyone here. At least until Sister Hunt points out that everyone is staring. Awkward...

So we have this new investigator who sells balut (which is bawal for missionaries here, thank goodness). But he is such a sweetie and always tries to give us free balut. But he taught us how to make is so maybe I'll make some for you when I get back! Not. I will not do that. 

Our branch president, President Somera, has been working with us on Fridays and Saturdays and it is so helpful. Plus... he gives us rides in his sobrang fancy car (which I'm not sure is allowed, but his whole family is always there too... I'll look into that...) And buys us food. So it's not a real missionary life when he works with us. But it's so nice for our investigators and less actives to see how much he cares about the work. The branch presidency should always be involved in the work.

Anyway, we have too many investigators for me to explain to you, but they are all the best. One of them is a Tatay who is trying so hard to quit smoking because he wants to be baptized so badly. And his wife is a recent convert and she wants him to be baptized so badly so they can go to the temple. I don't know if I told you this, but the Church sponsors the RCs here to go to the temple in Manila for the first time which is sobrang astig. But she gets so emotional when she talks about it and so Sister Hunt and I just end up in tears, too. 

Man, this work is hard. But it's so rewarding to see people make changes in their lives to come unto Christ. So many of our investigators are sacrificing so much that they think is important or that they have always been doing in order to be baptized. Ah, it's a beautiful thing. 

From my studies this week: One thing that I have really noticed is the reason people do not follow the prophet, read the BoM, etc. So I'm reading in Ether right now and one thing that I keep thinking is, "Why don't these people just listen to the Prophets? They've seen that the Lord will bring famine upon their land if they don't repent, just as the prophets say. So why don't they listen?" But then I thought about how that is still happening today. Such a small fraction of the world believe that Thomas S. Monson is a prophet, and a fraction of that fraction actually follow him. So, the people don't follow the prophet either because they don't believe he is a prophet or because they don't fully understand his role. I think the latter is the issue that our less actives are having. And that's where we come in. This principle can be applied to anything - reading, praying, going to church, etc. We need to make sure that our investigators, less actives and recent converts fully understand the importance of these things. Because if they aren't doing them, it means they don't see the importance of it for their lives. Our goal is to make sure everyone we teach understands that importance.

Anyway, my p-day is Monday, in case you haven't noticed. Oh... I don't know what time it is where you are. We usually email at around 11:00 so if you email me before then, that would be beautiful! I love to hear how everyone is doing!

I don't know if the pictures I've been sending are working, but here are some more. The little boy is Francis, one of the kids of our golden RCs. Then there's me last p-day at the bay - looking pinakamaganda after running. Then some others, I don't remember what I put up there. I'm going to try to send you a video that I took of the cutest kids singing a song for me my first week. Let me know if it works. 

That's all, fam! Let me know if there's anything I can do for y'all. Missin' you every day! I LOVE LOVE LOVE you all!

Ingat kayo,

Sister Mecham the Tall.


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Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Not sure how the last email sent without my permission...
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Ashley Mecham <ashley.mecham@myldsmail.net>
10:36 PM (19 hours ago)

to me, Amanda
Not sure what happened there... I'll continue...

LINDERD - if you're reading this: The shoes you gave me are THE BEST. I wear them every day. So, thanks and yeah. 

Back to family: My companion is Australian Samoan - so similar to Sister Taliaivao (roommate from MTC). So i still talk like an Australian Samoan (which is different then normal Australians...) Saying "yeah" after everything is part of that.

So I haven't eaten any really weird things yet. I had this drink, halo-halo, look up pictures of it. It's good, I just had absolutely no idea what I was drinking. There were the weirdest shaped and colored things in there. It looked like a child drew a picture of a crazy drink and they made it into real life. But don't worry about me getting fat, family. Every time I meet a member, they say "She's thin, we'll fix that." or "She'll be fat soon enough." But I don't see how that is going to happen because we have a tiny breakfast, a normal sized lunch and then usually no dinner because there isn't time to meet with the people if we stop for dinner. So that's that.

Anyway, THANK YOU THANK YOU family. You are the best. I love and miss you so much! Last night we were at a LA's home and they had two teenage kids, brother and sister, about the same age who kept hitting each other and then would be happy and normal the next second. It made me miss you, ATTICUS. Write me, yeah? I'm so grateful for you, pamilya. So much more than you know!!

So, the pictures are random, I know. I don't have a lot yet because I don't take picture while proselyting. So there are some of the apartment, me and Sis Hunt, the view from my window, some from the bay - we ran there this morning. One of the cutest little boy from the Bungar family. That's their house in the background that you can barely see. Maybe none of them uploaded... next time...

Out of time.

I LOVE YOU. BYE BYE PO.

Sister Mecham